Life is meant to be lived and the higher , our materialistic expectations ,the more complex it becomes .Whether its relations or an asset try to make it simple .
In my younger years without realising, i too got caught up in the rat race of comparing ,competiting with others . Now with age i have mellowed down ,learnt to evolve an identity of my own.
I guess some amount of competing is okay when it comes to education or career but competition in relationships is definitely unhealthy .It gives rise to jealousy and negativity.
Be happy or at least contended .Learn to focus on your inner self .Conduct yourself with dignity . Develop your own personality.Find peace in yourself.