” Expectations hurt” so they say .

Is it possible not to have any expectations at all.Man has been blessed with intelligence ,a mind and so its obvious that he tends to think and this leads to conscious or subconsious expectations.Expectations maybe from other people or towards a goal.

When one puts in efforts one starts to expect a successful outcome.The same logic applies to relationships.When one invests in a relationship with an adult ,child ,relative or friend we tend to subconsciously expect a return in the form of appreciation ,love ,care ,praise or materialistic gain.

Its a natural to expect and when these expectations are not fulfilled ,disappointment and hurt creep in .So i guess that one can only try to keep expectations low and develop acceptance of whatever comes your way .


Author: rita saxena

Rantings and Rumblings of my mind! The thoughts just seem to tumble out on their own😊

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