Look no further !!

Hi friends !

Seeing so many dissatisfied people on social sites .What is it people seek😮? Is it love , wealth ,happiness or perhaps one doesn’t know why is this restlessness?

Life is a bumpy ride at times and guess its only through experience one comes to understand it .Who are we? What is our purpose ?Why are we the way we are ?

Thinking maybe happiness is elusive to some or maybe human tendency to expect . Love struck ,heart breaks part of life .Perhaps self love is the best.

Life goes on we heal , we change ,we grow and finally learn to accept .


Ahoy 2019 !

As the year comes to an end ,my excitement begins .What’s in store in the coming year ?

Dawn of the New Year brings a fresh surge of energy , hope rises and expectations increase .Aha !Let me dream of a joyful year ahead ,full of happiness and lovely surprises . Love gushing in from all quarters of relationships .Beauty at it’s peak and warmth of security combined with serenity takes me soaring to another plane .

Happy New Year Guyz!


Beginning of a new life !

Hi friends !

Life changes they say and excitement begins if the change is a positive one.

Now in my fifties with both my children away and busy in their careers ,I have decided to begin a new me. 😊Have decided to upgrade my wardrobe ,sort out my old fashioned clothes and change to a dignified yet modern style. I still remember my college days when I would always be wearing trendy clothes. Somehow over a period of time I find myself mostly in jeans and tops. So off to evolving a smart personality .More shopping and increase in trips to the parlour .😇

Yahoo to a new me !!!😀😇

Searching for something in life !

Hi friends !

Going through my reader I come across lots of posts wherein the writer seems to be unsettled as if in search of something .I guess maybe its lack of fulfilment in some sphere of life .

Now in my fifties ,I realize that the greatest feeling is satisfaction or call it contentment. Happiness comes from fulfilment of our expectations. Perhaps the mind is conditioned to love ,desire or work for an achievement and when unsuccessful in it one becomes unhappy or unsettled.

So what is the solution ?

The solution I can think is of keeping realistic expectations .Accept your situation and don’t tie yourself to other people .Everyone has choices so make the best out of what you have .The greatest happiness comes from being loved so be humble , be compassionate and keep going .

Let’s move on guyz!

Being Beautiful

Its good to be beautiful . And beauty radiates from the whole personality of a person. Apart from the features and figure, one’s gait ,posture and even body language all go into consideration.A smile , a dimple or mesmerizing eyes add to it.

No doubt clothes and make up help to enhance our look or even camouflage the unappealing features but real beauty is visible in the simplest of clothes and minimum of make up .I remember yesteryears Indian actress Nutan and the present day Katrina who with their simplicity radiate beauty.

Some faces show a freshness ,an innocence which catches our eye. No doubt beauty is prevalent mostly in young age and fades as we age .However there are those rare cases of middle aged women who exude a charm ,a sweetness which is very attractive . Hema Malini is one such example of such charm .

Anyhow whatever the definition of beautiful ,one thing for sure we girls all feel happy when we look beautiful .

Whatever be ,all you ladies out here , get up ,dress up and doll yourself to renew yourself .

Winter Woes

Winter is approaching and being a sun lover I can’t help but feel apprehensive about this seasonal change .The late sunrise makes me a late riser and its an effort to get out of my warm cozy bed .As I sip my first cup of ginger laced tea I can feel it coursing down my throat and radiating its warmth through my entire body .Its only then I surmount energy to go about my daily chores.

However the most dreaded but compulsory routine is bathing .It’s a shuddering trembling experience and I try to hurry it up to escape from the cold . Oiling and moisturizing is another added task which cannot be ignored even though it’s boring .

Being a homemaker ,cooking becomes more tedious as again I have to wash the veggies etc and put my hands in cold water .But I have devised my own technique in which I use a long handle spoon to toss turn and rinse the veggies thus avoiding my precious fingers from getting partly frozen .

I guess my favourite time is after my early lunch when I sit and soak in the sun as it streams into our porch .A luxurious relaxed feeling creeps into my body .The mind starts to rest and a vacant happiness takes over .

Funny weather it is as I always go searching for something to munch .Guilt fills in when I see my weighty reflection in the mirror but I console myself that it’s only temporary and of course I need the extra calories .

Early dinner and early to bed is my winter mantra and I love to snuggle deep in my quilt and hope that time hibernates as I fall into a restful warm and cozy slumber .



Vacation Excitement !

Yeah !!!!Going to Goa on 25 of this month for 5 days. Have been there before with my son in 2007 but this it its with my hubby .More of a break and a change from routine life .Just need to relax ,no work ,comfortable stay and absorb the different surroundings and culture .

Here in North India its been raining from past two weeks disrupting my evening walks . Feeling bored indoors .